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Thursday, January 15, 2009

People

whiny people.....oh how I despise whiny people!!! people who do nothing but bitch and moan about EVERYTHING but refuse to do anything about it!!! they let people walk all over them, and then say....I wish people would listen to me....well DUH stand up for yourself and tell them like it is, tell them NO once in awhile and they will not walk all over you!!!

this post was inspired by my friend Moo please check out her post!!! LOL she started it!!! ha ha ha but really she got me thinking about.....what irks me about some people...and I have to say it is whiny ass people that do not have the balls to stand up for themselves, but oh yes are the very first to complain about all the wrongs that have befallen them.....yes that is one of the biggies....

I learned at a very young age, that if you do not have the balls to stand up for yourself or your beliefs than 9 times out of 10 you will be walked all over, or not heard, or just taken advantage of. yeah it may make me cynical, hard or whatever you want to call it, but at least people know I won't take their BS without calling them on it!!! LOL yeah, I do have that rep....it can be a curse but then I find it to be quite liberating....for the pure fact that if people want an honest to God true answer, the usually ask me.....or like my sister says.....she often times thinks "what would Wendi do in this situation"....she is a little more pragmatic than me....ha ha...but hey....we are who we are I guess, and I should be accepting of those that cannot stand up for themselves, and I am ......usually.....it is just the ones that choose not to say anything when they are more than capable of doing so....

4 comments:

Moo said...

I feel you sista friend!

Toni said...

Are you all talking about me LOL well this could totally fit me sometimes though I am getting better about saying F off in a little nicer way LOL

Minxy Mimi said...

I hear ya! I think its a good thing to stand up for yourself... hard to do sometimes tho!

Wendi said...

LOL!!! No Toni!!! its not you!!! you did a very good job standing up for yourself today!!!

its just about some people in my life here in person, that are jsut about to drive me up a wall....