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Tuesday, October 14, 2008

What the Helga is wrong with some people?

Seriously!?! I am asking....you do what THEY suggested for someone to do, and then bam they treat you like you are a traitor, and well whatever comes across their mind......because honestly I do not get their mind!! I cannot possibly wrap my mind around it....you are a so called friend and yet you treat people like shit, and expect them to take it forever!?! well I guess in "their world" that's OK....but here in the real world its not!!! Internet friends are REAL friends!!! I have Internet friends and 5 of them I have become really close with.......I know for a fact that we would do just about anything for each other and have!!! be it moral support, or a monetary donation, or to just be a phone call away....isn't that the definition of "friendship"?

So we go to a mommy board and post "fluff' so the eff what!! our fluff means something to us, we are not immune to it!! we actually relish in it, and WANT to know what is going on in each and every ones lives....even if it is something like my dd pooped in the potty, all the way to I am battling a disease.....we WANT to be there for each other....and what is so damn wrong in their eyes for a place to be continued so WE that want that type of "home" can go and continue on....

I guess I just don't get it and never will!!! As petty as it is now to be banned from a place where you made some other friends, life will go on and *I* will continue to live it MY way, and really to hell with those that want to remain in jr high for the rest of their lives.....

9 comments:

Minxy Mimi said...

AMEN!!! and I rarely say that!!!
I agree 100% and I am sure many others do. Friends matter, friends count, friends are there for each other like we are. THEY cannot understand that conceot of real and true friendship. Its sad in a way. But, I have to say, I love this heady feeling of freedom!

Susan said...

You said a mouthful Wendi!! It was a good mouthful too :)

Toni said...

I agree with you, internet friend, real life friends they are all friends and imo you treat them how you want to be treated. It's sad because the ones that treat those badly will end up with no friends in the end and the ones that stick by them will have no one either.

It sucks to do but sometimes you just have to take a stand. I know there are friends who have been there for me through everything I have gone through. the ones who stuck by me and stuck up for me are the ones I need in my life.

Yep eventually everyone shows themselves for what they really are good or bad. Wouldn't it just be a lot easier to just have things like
"I am trustworthy to the end"
"I will be your friend until I don't need you for something anymore"
"I will say I am your friend but when it comes time to stand up for you I will back down"
"Don't even bother talking to me b/c I wont' give you the time of day"
or something tattooed on our heads. It would make friendships so much easier then. We could just avoid the bad tattoos and make friends with the good ones LOL.

Well that was a comment full LOL. Anyhoo your post was great. That is all I was trying to say but much more came out

Moo said...

Way to go sista friend.. I totally agree with you... and I enjoy fluff... I feel pity for anyone who is immune to the wonderful simplicity of small talk... its a great way to get to know all the quirks about someone else... But if you are a person who just wants to crap on people and try to make yourself look like hot sh*t, then I guess you need something else... and whatever that something else might be... well, > I < am immune to that....

Debateur said...

Amen Wendi. I hope you count me in that list of friends.

Jess said...

AMEN SISTA!!

Jess said...

oh i've got something for you... http://ruggratsx2.blogspot.com/2008/10/blog-academy-awards.html :)

Wendi said...

Yes you are one of the friends debateur!!!! most definately!!

Lea said...

You said it!!! Great job!!! I agree with it all!!